What are your barriers to quitting?


Smokers have obstacles to giving up smoking. However, these roadblocks are often based on misinformation. In most cases, they can be eased by knowing the facts and by careful planning. Some of the common barriers are listed below.


Coping with stress

Most smokers are surprised to find out that smoking actually increases stress! 

When the nicotine level in your body falls between cigarettes, you start to feel anxious and restless (nicotine withdrawal). These feelings occur repeatedly throughout the day and are relieved by having another cigarette. It is easy to see why smokers feel that cigarettes relax them, when their smoking habit has actually created the problem in the first place!

Figure: As nicotine levels fall after a cigarette, smokers repeatedly go into nicotine withdrawal. (Source: Dr Gillian Gould)


Over time, smokers learn to use smoking to cope with other types of stress as well.

Some of the relaxation from smoking is due to having a break or having a few deep breaths, not the cigarette itself.

Many people feel guilty or ashamed of smoking and worry about the damage to health from smoking and this also creates stress.

Nicotine does have a temporary calming effect, but it is also a stimulant, releasing adrenaline, cortisone and other chemicals that quicken the pulse, raise the blood pressure and increase arousal.

Quitting can cause stress in the short term, however anti-smoking medications can usually relieve that. More importantly, studies show that former smokers often feel less stressed after quitting.

The bottom line is that smoking is not an effective way to cope with stress and only makes things worse. 

There are much healthier and more effective ways to relax, such as:

  • Physical activity and exercise
  • A relaxation technique:
    • Deep breathing. Click here to learn a deep breathing exercise.
    • Progressive muscular relaxation. Click here to learn a muscular relaxation technique.
    • Meditation. Click here to learn more about meditation 
  • Reading, socialising, music
  • Talking to a close friend or family member about your problems
  • Getting professional help such as counselling, CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy); mindfulness; problem solving; assertiveness training; conflict resolution

Think about what relaxation method would work for you and commit yourself to starting a new strategy before you quit, so you are prepared.


Gaining weight

scales-HELP.jpgGaining weight after quitting is a concern for many smokers, especially women. The average weight gain over the long term is 7kg, compared to continuing smoking.

As a smoker you are artificially underweight. When you quit the body returns to the weight it would have been if you had never smoked. However, not everyone gains weight. One in four quitters loses weight or stays the same.

The good news is that the substantial health benefits of quitting far outweigh the effects of any weight gain. It has been calculated that you would need to put on 42kg to neutralise the health benefits of quitting.

After quitting, your appearance will improve in a number of ways. Your skin colour improves and you will develop fewer wrinkles. You will lose those yellow tar stains on your fingers and teeth. You will no longer smell like an ashtray.


Why do people gain weight after quitting?

Weight gain after quitting is mainly due to stopping nicotine. There are two ways that nicotine keeps your weight down.

  • Nicotine reduces the appetite. After you quit, you may become hungrier for a while and eat more.
  • Nicotine also speeds up the metabolism and helps the body burn fat faster. As a result you may gain weight even if you don’t eat more.

Other reasons for gaining weight after quitting are:

  • Using food as a substitute for smoking
  • The improved taste of food after quitting
  • Eating to relieve tension


Can weight gain be prevented?

Research has shown that detailed dietary programs do not generally work. Trying too hard to prevent weight gain while quitting is usually not successful and can also reduce your chance of quitting successfully. The best advice is to follow a sensible, low-fat diet, exercise regularly and accept that some weight gain is likely to occur.



Simple dietary advice

  • Eat more salads, fruits, vegetables, cereals, rice and pasta
  • Reduce fried and high-fat foods such as cakes, pastries, creamy desserts, chocolate
  • Eat less take-aways such as hamburgers, pizza and pies
  • Choose low-fat dairy foods
  • Beware of nibbling, especially on high-fat or high-sugar foods. Chew sugarless gum instead
  • Drink lots of water or low-kilojoule drinks
  • Try to reduce or avoid alcohol. It is fattening and can weaken your resolve to avoid overeating or smoking
  • Watch your portion size
  • Use sugar free gum and mints


Exercise regularly

Exercise reduces weight gain, relieves cravings and stress. It also reverses some of the health damage done by smoking.

Choose an activity that is enjoyable and convenient. Where possible, exercise with family or friends.

Try to exercise on most days of the week for at least 30 minutes at a time.  

Stop-smoking medication can help

Some of the drugs used to help you quit can delay weight gain during the quitting process. This lets you focus on quitting without being distracted by weight gain. Nicotine patch, gum and lozenges and bupropion (Zyban) are effective and probably varenicline (Champix). Unfortunately, most people gain the weight when they stop the medication. 

The bottom line

It is best to accept some weight gain in the short term if it occurs. Focus on quitting as your number one priority and deal with the weight gain later once non-smoking has become firmly established. 


A fear of failure

craving_cigarette.jpgIf you have tried several times to quit in the past it is natural that you will be wondering if you are able to do it this time.

It is important to understand that most smokers try to quit a number of times before they are able to quit for good. Failure is a normal part of the quitting process. The only real failure is to not keep trying.

Perhaps you think you don’t have enough willpower. However, willpower is not a magic quality that some people have and some don’t. The key to quitting is being committed and using proven and effective strategies.

It is helpful to think of past ‘failures’ as learning experiences. Each time you try to quit, you learn something, for example that you can’t have ‘just one puff’ or that you are at-risk when drinking alcohol. You can use that knowledge to help you next time. Your chance of success improves with each attempt. 


How did you quit in the past?

  • Quitting without help (cold turkey) is commonly used but is almost always unsuccessful. Only 3-5% of attempts to quit cold turkey succeed.
  • Did you use medication? Did you use it for long enough, was the dose sufficient, did you use it correctly? If one medication didn’t work, did you try the others? Different treatments work for different people.
  • Perhaps you used unproven methods in the past, such as hypnosis, acupuncture, lobeline, NicoBloc etc.

Getting professional advice and support and using medication correctly will greatly enhance your chance of success this time. Hundreds of thousands of Australians quit each year and so can you!


Social pressure

smokers.jpgAsk your friends not to offer you cigarettes and if possible not to smoke around you. If necessary, leave the room while they smoke.

Plan how to respond if you are offered a cigarette.

If your partner smokes, ask him or her to smoke outside.





Last Modified: 09-06-2017